The Story You Tell About Yourself

“You are not a drop in the ocean. You are the entire ocean in a drop.”

You have a story about yourself. It was written partly by you and partly by others — by the things people said about you when you were young, by the experiences that shaped you, by the conclusions you drew from pain.

This story feels like fact. It feels like description. But it is interpretation.

The child who was told they were too sensitive grew up believing sensitivity was a flaw. The person who failed publicly grew up believing they were someone who fails. The one who was left grew up believing they were someone who gets left.

These stories are not lies, exactly. They are partial truths that have been promoted to total truths. And they can be rewritten — not by pretending the past was different, but by choosing a different interpretation of what it means.

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